There is a great post on Dr. Moore's website about dealing with a potential spouses sexual past. Here's a few highlights:
"I’ve seen several budding relationships wrecked by a “DTR” (”define the relationship” talk) about such matters that formed, prematurely, an inappropriate emotional intimacy."
"On the one hand, a man who glibly dismisses his past immorality is dangerous, for your future marriage and your future children. On the other hand, your dismissing him automatically on the basis of immorality is also dangerous."
"You are not “owed” a virgin because you are."
"Jesus was a virgin. His Bride wasn’t. He loved us anyway."
Read the whole thing: How Much Do I Need to Know About My Potential Spouse’s Sexual Past? My Response
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